Answer to Question 1
C
Answer to Question 2
Anna's behavior is fairly typical of late adolescence and emerging adults. Because her mother did not come right out and ask, Do you have a job? Anna may rationalize that she is not lying to her mother. Certainly some adolescents lie to their parents, but more often they avoid full disclosure. The lack of disclosure does not necessarily mean that there is a problem in the adolescent-parent relationship. Anna's behavior could probably be described as failure to disclose (or secrecy). Her mother should not be overly concerned or feel a threat to their parent-daughter relationship. Adolescents are more likely to avoid full disclosure (rather than lying) when they have a secure and harmonious relationship with their parents. In such cases, the parents are typically authoritative parents with a supportive but firm parenting style. (Secrecy and lying are more often involved when adolescents fear their parents.) Adolescents typically want to avoid conflict, so they make some decisions without full disclosure. The decision to withhold information is typically based on the adolescents' perception of parents' right and authority to regulate their behavior in a given situation. Even in good, strong, loving parent-child relationships, adolescents often withhold information. Most adolescents feel obligated to disclose information and activities for which they perceive the parent has legitimate authority to regulate. Both adolescents and parents perceive that teenagers are obligated to disclose behavior that affects one's safety, comfort, or health, but view as discretionary the disclosure of information pertaining to personal issues, such as what they spend their money on or how they spend their time.