List the personal attributes and social supports that foster ...

[javeds]

List the personal attributes and social supports that foster resilience in emerging adulthood.
 
  What will be an ideal response?

Question 2

Discuss Robert Sternbergs triangular theory of love. Define its components, and discuss how each changes over the course of a relationship.
 
  What will be an ideal response?

[ciecieme]

Answer to Question 1

Answer: A variety of resources foster resilience in emerging adulthood:
Cognitive attributes:
 Effective planning and decision making
 Information-gathering cognitive style and mature epistemic cognition
 Good school performance
 Knowledge of vocational options and necessary skills
Emotional and social attributes:
 Positive self-esteem
 Good emotional self-regulation and flexible coping strategies
 Good conflict-resolution skills
 Confidence in ones ability to reach ones goals
 Sense of personal responsibility for outcomes
 Persistence and effective use of time
 Healthy identity developmentmovement toward exploration in depth and certainty of commitment
 Strong moral character
 Sense of meaning and purpose in life, engendered by religion, spirituality, or other sources
 Desire to contribute meaningfully to ones community
Social and financial supports:
 Warm, autonomy-supportive relationship with parents
 Positive relationships with peers, teachers, and mentors
 Financial assistance from parents or others
 Sense of connection to social institutions, such as school, religious institution, workplace, and community center

Answer to Question 2

Answer: Sternbergs triangular theory of love identifies three componentspassion, intimacy, and commitmentthat shift in emphasis as romantic relationships develop. Passion, the desire for sexual activity and romance, is the physical- and psychological-arousal component. Intimacy, the emotional component, involves warm, tender communication and caring self-disclosure, plus a desire for the partner to reciprocate. Commitment is the cognitive component, leading partners to decide that they are in love and to maintain that love.
At the beginning of a relationship, passionate loveintense sexual attractionis strong. Gradually, passion declines in favor of intimacy and commitment, which form the basis for two additional forms of love. The first is companionate lovewarm, trusting affection and valuing of the other. The second, and perhaps the most fundamental type of love in any deeply satisfying close relationship, is compassionate loveconcern for the others well-being, expressed through caring efforts to alleviate the others distress and promote the others growth and flourishing. Each aspect of love helps sustain the relationship. Early passionate love is a powerful predictor of whether partners keep dating. Without the quiet intimacy, predictability, and shared attitudes and values of companionate love, most romances eventually break up. And the combination of intimacy and commitment inherent in compassionate love is strongly linked to partners relational happiness and plans to remain together over the long term.

[javeds]

Thanks for the timely response, appreciate it

[Perkypinki]

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