Author Question: Attachment needs are normative and universal across theory; thus EFT has elements that are ... (Read 20 times)

nramada · **on:** Jul 30, 2018

Attachment needs are normative and universal across theory; thus EFT has elements that are applicable to diverse clients.

a. True
b. False

Question 2

A hallmark EFT technique, softening of emotions, is used to create emotional bonding, change interactional positions, and redefine the relationship as safe and connected. Softening of emotions is accomplished with couples in therapy by all of the following EXCEPT:

a. when a previously blaming, critical partner asks a newly accessible partner to meet his/her attachment needs and longings from a position of emotional vulnerability.
b. the more critical partner softens his/her stance and words, allowing the more vulnerable or anxious partner to reduce emotional reactivity and defensiveness.
c. when partners learn to express their underlying attachment-based fears, including hurt and disappointment, when discussing conflict areas.
d. when a frustrated and angry wife indirectly asks her husband for comfort and connection.