Answer to Question 1
Correct Answer: 1
Rationale 1: Knowing, according to Swanson, is striving to understand an event as it has meaning in the life of the other. A subdimension of this process is avoiding assumptions. The nurse in this situation made an assumption about clients with bipolar disorder.
Rationale 2: Being with is being emotionally present to another person.
Rationale 3: Doing for is providing for others as they would do for themselves if it were possible.
Rationale 4: Enabling is facilitating the other's passage through life transitions and unfamiliar events.
Answer to Question 2
Correct Answer: 4
Rationale 1: Knowing is striving to understand an event as it has meaning in the life of the other. If this were the case in this situation, the nurse would be asking the students to explain what they are going through, or what it feels like to lose a friend.
Rationale 2: Being with is being emotionally present to the other.
Rationale 3: Doing for is providing for others as they would do for themselves if it were possible.
Rationale 4: Enabling is facilitating the other's passage through life transitions and unfamiliar events. Being supportive of the students and encouraging them to share and talk about their friend is allowing them to move through the grief process. Enabling also includes supporting, assisting, guiding, and validating.